Expectationseyes are tired.. taking in short gasps of air.. mind is disfunctioning.. all that is heard/seen are raised voices, frustrated tones, irritated faces.. tt's too much.. a person once told me that we shouldn't have false expectations of the other party, cos in the end, nothing's well.
Definition of Expectation: when one thinks or believes good things to happen in future. if false expectations are bad, then should we perhaps, harbour no expectations at all? obviously, everyone has expectations in certain aspects, in their careers, in their partner, in their frenz.. what then are false expectations?
personally, false expectations to me are misunderstandings or rather, a lack of understanding. if we were to understand situations, a person, through and through, would they be unable to live up to our expectations? the answer is no. if everyone were to only to think of the worse outcomes, instead of wanting the best, there would be an abundance of pessimism. the world would spiral out of control, downhill. simply, that's horrible.
of course, who doesn't wanna expect the best of things? who doesn't wanna hope for good things/ppl to enter their lives? eradicate expectations? impossible. if you have high expectations, tt is a total thing altogether. in whatever case, one should be realistic. if you have expectations that aren't fulfilled, if you had failed to meet up to the other person's expectations, you can either move on, or stay on and adapt and change. the choice is yours. yours alone.
