Give & Takeopposites attract for a reason, and a very good one at that. temperament is an issue in most relationships. perhaps sis and i have similar traits tt causes us to clash at times. i guess we both try to bear with each other, but sometimes sensitivity doesn't play a part. gosh.. frustration.. *pulls hair*
i realised too that i dunno how to react to another party's unhappiness in relation to me. i'm afraid to broach the topic for fear of how he/she may respond. just try to act normal and hope everything just falls back in place. but of course, things don't usually happen this way. *sigh* the other person's unhappiness troubles me alot and puts me at a loss, so much so tt i get to the brink of tears..
i don't want anyone to be upset or feel down.. i dislike sadness and yearn for joy but there's too many obstacles in life that prevents this from reoccuring consistently. can't one just accept the faults and mistakes of others? can't the other refrain from doing so? can't the both of them just talk it out and make peace? the ideal way. hard but possible. give and take, not tit for tat or an eye for an eye.